We help couples reconcile, truly communicate, and flourish.  Reconcile when they are hopeless, communicate when there are no more words, and flourish when they’ve experienced true forgiveness. We help them reimagine, clarify, and map out their preferred future together when they are at points of significant change in their lives.

Learn more about Ash & John’s own story of reconciliation here

We take each couple through a three step process…

Step 1

We help each spouse understand their unique personality by taking them through a “Best Fit” experience.  This helps each spouse grow personally, love God passionately, do good work purposefully, and live intentionally.

Step 2

We help each spouse find unity, the place of commanded blessings, about the couple’s agreed upon desires and needs.

Step 3

Once a vision of unity is formed, we take the couple through a guided conversation about what each would love to do with the remaining time left in their career, family, and lives. We help them identify and overcome barriers that can stop them from living the life they most desire together. The ultimate goal is to bring glory to God and goodness to their marriage.

If you believe these lies, we can help:

  • I NO LONGER believe my spouse can meet my needs

  • I NO LONGER believe I need my spouse. Someone else would be better for me

  • I NO LONGER find my spouse sexually attractive

  • I NO LONGER think my spouse can or should be my closest relationship

  • I NO LONGER have hope for our marriage

  • I NO LONGER see my spouse as a treasure

  • I NO LONGER have the power to change my situation; I am powerless

  • I NO LONGER believe my marriage has the potential to make me or them happy

  • I NO LONGER believe God wants me to stay married to this person

Couple Offerings:

We have very limited availability for our Marriage Offerings and focus on helping a few high-impact couples who value their marriage and are willing to put everything they have into making sure it is not just okay, but the most amazing part of their lives.  Our approach is biblical and we utilize tools that help you understand Love & Forgiveness, which can only be truly achieved through a relationship with God.

Our Relationship Intensive is a two day, immersive experience, guided by John and Ash, to establish and align the vision for your marriage and family.  The intensive consists of a short version Best Fit, conflict resolution discussions, exercises to identify and address past hurts & trigger words, and defining roles & responsibilities within your family, work, and lifestyle.

Relationship Intensive

After a Relationship Intensive, where the marriage and family vision has been established, John and Ash will guide you through the process of 5F Planning.  This planning will further your alignment as a couple in the categories of Faith, Family, Fitness, Fun, and Finances.  During the 5F planning there will be further discussion of difficult subjects. Through guided conversations, in a safe space, solutions & plans will come to light.  The 5F Planning will culminate with a defined set of goals, as well as a clear plan to enhance and improve your marriage, family, and life.

5F Plan Development

After 5F planning, John & Ash walk beside you and your spouse for at least 12 months. During this period John & Ash will help you implement their proven 5F Operating System. Using the alignment gained during the Relationship Intensive & 5F Planning Process, you will create a cadence of weekly, monthly, and yearly alignment with your goals. Further, through a more in depth Best Fit, along with an exercise to determine your preferred future, you will find a level of alignment in life & work that you never thought possible.

Walking Beside

If this could serve you or your spouse:

  • Faith is the foundation for our beliefs and one of the central elements to determining the peace we have with ourselves and others.

  • The Family category really encompasses community as a whole; relatives, friends, colleagues, and more.

  • The Fun category, within our 5-F framework, refers to the things you do for the sheer joy of doing them. We believe this is an important area of life, amidst the stewardship of the other four categories, because we were designed to enjoy creation.

  • The Fitness category is all about your physical and mental well-being. Fitness can include your physical body performance, the nutrition you take in, and also your mindset surrounding self image.

  • Finance is the category which most people understand how to measure. For us, Finance isn’t all about money, but how we steward what has been entrusted to us.

The 5-Fs